12/25/10
♥ My dad is...
First of all, merry Christmas to all... Next come my grumble... Suddenly felt that my dad is a push over on Christmas... Already decide that mum would make pizza for the night but no... Dad fren have to call and ask him to bring back chicken rice... My reaction was WTF ? Christmas and we are eating chicken rice again ? I m already sick and tired of chicken rice! Even when I m outside, I avoid chicken rice! So on Christmas night it's chicken rice for dinner... There is no place for discussion even for the chicken rice to be eaten tomorrow instead... Before this incident was the Taiwan trip incident... He got push over by his 2nd brother who is also boss... They insisted in going Taiwan with us and we can't reject it... So me and my sister decided not go... Simply because this is a family trip and there is 2 outsiders (2nd uncle and his wife) not only that, they are extremely bossy and expect people to follow their point of view... There goes the suppose to be family trip... And even before this was the many events the uncle boss my dad around simply because he is the boss... Even long before that, my dad already is a push over before i was borned... My dad is skilled on electrical stuff like lightings and wiring.. He even work for the new Zealand navy before cause of his skills... But no... He had to listen to my grandma who is bias against my 2nd uncle... My dad had a disagreement with 2nd brother wife and quited... Than my grandma pressure my dad to go back and work... So well done... 20 years later he is still drawing the same salary when he started working for him... For the past 20 years, the family life could have been better of he had work elsewhere... Sometime I feel like saying, well done dad... You just made the whole family suffer because of your thinking of compromising to everyone to make you safe... Compromising is not the only way to live! Sometimes it's better have things your way and it some time it could satisfy others as well !
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